Roseanne Barr spent eight years building a comeback nobody at ABC was going to hand her. This week, in a wide-ranging interview with The Hollywood Reporter, she revealed just how far that comeback has drifted from the family that made her famous — confirming that her son reached out to John Goodman about a cameo in her new self-funded sitcom, Meemaw, and that Goodman turned it down.
The Snub
The ask was simple enough. Barr’s son called Goodman directly, floating a small appearance in Meemaw: A Modern Day Fable, the eight-episode comedy she quietly financed and shot in Austin after bigger backers — including, by her account, Elon Musk — never returned her calls.
Goodman said no. He hasn’t commented publicly on the decision, but the symbolism wasn’t lost on anyone who grew up watching him and Barr play Dan and Roseanne Conner for the better part of a decade. The woman once married to television’s most beloved working-class husband couldn’t get him to show up for eight minutes of screen time, let alone eight episodes.
The Fractured Bond
Barr didn’t soften the moment when THR pressed her on it. Asked how she gets along with Goodman, 74, or Laurie Metcalf, 71, she answered flatly: “I don’t.” Asked if the three were in touch at all, she said, “Of course not.”
When the interviewer noted it seemed sad, given how close the cast once appeared, Barr agreed. “I did too,” she said, before pivoting to the version of events she prefers to keep: “I just choose to remember the fun and the good times.”
It’s a notably different story than the one The Conners told for seven seasons after her 2018 firing. Goodman has said much the same from his side, telling THR earlier this year that he hadn’t spoken to Barr in “seven or eight years” and doubted she’d want to hear from him at all. Metcalf, in a separate interview, described the silence in gentler terms, but the outcome was identical: no calls, no texts, no reunion.
John Goodman’s Present Chapter
While Barr has spent the better part of a decade clawing her way back into scripted television, Goodman has quietly built something closer to a victory lap.
He’s down roughly 200 pounds from a peak near 400, a transformation he’s credited to sobriety, portion control, and nearly two decades of consistency rather than any dramatic intervention. At 74, he’s voicing Papa Smurf in major studio releases, anchoring HBO’s The Righteous Gemstones, and closing out The Conners on his own terms — including a finale moment where Dan visits Roseanne’s grave.
It’s a life that looks, from the outside, settled. Where Barr is still fighting for a network or streamer to buy her vision, Goodman has the freedom to decline one.
The Legacy
Almost thirty years after Roseanne first went off the air, the public still can’t look away from what’s left of the Conner family offscreen. Part of it is nostalgia. Part of it is the sheer strangeness of watching two people who shared a kitchen table on primetime television for a decade now maintain a silence that’s lasted almost as long.
Barr’s insistence on remembering “the fun and the good times” reads less like closure than like someone still negotiating with the past. Goodman’s quiet refusal suggests he’s already finished that negotiation.
Key Takeaways
- Roseanne Barr confirmed her son contacted John Goodman about a Meemaw cameo, which Goodman declined
- Barr says she is “of course” not in contact with either Goodman or Laurie Metcalf
- Goodman has separately confirmed the pair haven’t spoken in roughly seven to eight years
- Goodman has lost close to 200 pounds from a peak of nearly 400, and remains active across film, TV and animation at 74
- Meemaw: A Modern Day Fable is an eight-episode, privately financed sitcom Barr shot in Austin, still seeking a network or streaming home


